not according to plan
Bekah Loewen & Rohn Clipperton
“Our relationship wasn’t going according to “plan”. It blew all the formulas, didn’t fit the description in the “courtship books” at all.”
Don't follow a formula. While it’s tempting to try and tuck love into some tidy box, it will never work like that. Do rely on the Holy Spirit. Rather than depending on someone else’s “step-by-step”, listen to the Spirit and how He is guiding.
(Lisa Jacobson in "Essential Dos and Don'ts for Courtship and Dating" at Club31Women.com)