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by K.J. Tanner

Friends of mine prayed for boys.  They asked and begged and after twenty weeks, they lay prone on a table, abdomen gooey as tears of joy streamed down their faces.  “It’s a boy!” the technician declared joyously. I cried not tears of joy, but one small tear of sadness.  It’s not that I didn’t want a son per se, I just never expected to have a son.

#PrayingForBoys review & #giveaway #MarchOfBooks

My lone tear was one of fear. I have always felt utterly unprepared to raise a son. For years I’ve battled guilt over my initial reaction to rearing my son, but after six and a half years of being a boy mom in this culture I can look back on my twenty-one-year-old self with compassion and know that feeling unprepared was just the beginning. It was okay because our great Father, the same one that gifted me my boy, thought it right that he have me–young, unprepared, me for a mom. My initial fears over whether or not I could love another child and whether or not I would know how to parent my boy faded as I bonded with him after his birth and during his NICU stay, but do you want to know a little secret? I still feel ill-equipped most of the time.

I fear for my boy, y’all. I fear that he will wreck his life; that he will be disrespectful to women. I fear that he will drop out of school, that he will leave his faith, that he will be injured doing what boys to best–adventure. While some fear is good and natural, we were never ever called to live out of a place of fear. Instead, we are told to don our armour and to stand. We mamas are a special kind of warrior. We are gifted with these amazing men-children and charged with raising them and amidst our fears we are given heavenly dispensation to train them up, but mamas, none of that can happen without prayer.

Sometimes those fears that I listed above get the best of me. I ache to protect my son from the wiles of this world, but short of putting him in a rubber room for the next fifteen years, there’s not too much I can do. Or is there? We are called to pray, mamas. The best way we can protect our sons is to, as I said above, don our armour and then get on our knees.

But I don’t know where to start?!

That’s okay, friend. I didn’t know where to start either and that’s why I want to tell you about Praying for Boys by Brooke McGlothlin. Not only is this book a fabulous read, it is also so pragmatic and helpful. Instead of just writing about why we should be praying for our sons, Brooke gives us the “how” in the form of fill-in-the-blank prayers for our boys. Each chapter focuses on a broad area with prayers at the end annotated with which verse of scripture Brooke utilized to build that prayer.

Brooke’s voice is one of a down-to-earth friend sitting with you over coffee and discussing your boys’ latest adventures. You won’t find an ounce of guilt in this book, friend. Instead you will find encouragement and empowerment to begin praying for your boys even if you only have five spare minutes a day.

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K.J. TannerKristina never thought that the title ‘single mom’ would follow her name, but now that it does she writes about navigating life in this unexpected season. A native New Yorker who despises precipitation of any kind, she works as an American Sign Language Interpreter and writes about her adventures with her four daughters and one son. Her life is rarely boring. Visit her at kjtanner.com

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Books, Motherhood, Reviews · March 31, 2014 · 12 Comments

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  1. AvatarAmanda Geaney says . . .

    April 7, 2014 at 2:28 pm

    I’ve bought a similar title because I know the importance of going before the Throne of Grace for our children. However, I’ve stagnated in my reading because of the style of writing. I would like to see if this book is more relatable.

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  2. AvatarLaisa Barton says . . .

    April 7, 2014 at 7:49 am

    I bought this book today and started reading it. For the first time, I felt my prayer was personal when I followed what the book said. I am very encouraged by this as I do so want to pray for my boys – a son and two grandsons – whose lives I hope would be committed to you. Thank you Brooke for the book. I look forward to working my way through the pages daily and turning over a new leaf for a more fulfilling life.

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  3. AvatarHannah B says . . .

    April 5, 2014 at 12:28 pm

    I would love to read this book!

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  4. AvatarAmalia says . . .

    April 5, 2014 at 7:43 am

    Wow. Thank you for another giveaway; it sounds really good.

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  5. AvatarKacey says . . .

    April 5, 2014 at 6:41 am

    I have two boys (ages 4 and 6) so the prayer help is definitely needed. 🙂

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  6. AvatarJ means says . . .

    April 1, 2014 at 7:50 pm

    Love your blog. Love reading your reviews

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  7. AvatarJulia says . . .

    April 1, 2014 at 11:54 am

    When I got pregnant I always said “She” because it had to be a girl. I was a girly girl with 10 nieces. Boy wasn’t in my vocabulary….until the ultrasound technician said, “it’s a boy!” To say I felt totally unprepared is an understatement. But I’m learning day by day how to mother this adorable little boy. It’s not as foreign as I suspected….yet. But I do wish he liked to cuddle.

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  8. AvatarDeanna says . . .

    April 1, 2014 at 11:25 am

    This book sounds amazing. My first child is a 3 year old girl and then 10 months ago a little guy came along. I’m the oldest of 8 kids and the first 7 of us are girls so the boy thing is a little new to me. 🙂

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  9. AvatarAndrea Lisk says . . .

    April 1, 2014 at 9:16 am

    I have 3 little boys. Never expected it but I love it. Would love to read this.

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  10. AvatarMaria says . . .

    March 31, 2014 at 4:15 pm

    I want to learn to pray for my sons…

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  11. AvatarShannon Coe says . . .

    March 31, 2014 at 12:05 pm

    What a good review, Kristina! I have heard a lot about this book. God blessed me with four sons. I understand and empathize with all your fears. Let me encourage you and give you a look forward- God hears every single prayer and He knows every moment you spend on the battlefield in war over your beloved son. I hope all the mommas of boys read this book and learn to pray like they never have before.

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  12. AvatarKaleigh says . . .

    March 31, 2014 at 8:31 am

    Wonderful testimony! Thank you for sharing and providing the giveaway. God bless. 🙂

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