Making Time to Read Again
Someone once asked me if I thought I read too much.
Indignant but compassionate, I replied, “I don’t think that’s possible. Do you think you read too little?”
And I still laugh about that short interaction, though it took place during my teen years when I could (and did!) devour whole books in the space of a few short days. Now, consuming a single title takes me weeks, if not months. I blame my decreased reading time on a new life stage, marriage, and work. I used to fit reading into every day. Lately, I have to work to block off times to read every week–and sometimes I only succeed when I put on an audiobook while I’m folding laundry.
But there’s nothing quite like a good book, so I still invest in the struggle to find time to read. Here are some of the ways I prioritize reading.
Set a Reading Goal
At the beginning of 2017, I set my loftiest reading goal yet. I set out to read every single one of the tomes on my to-read shelf. Yes, I have a whole shelf devoted to none but my to-reads. I have kept them set apart from the rest of my bookshelf because, when I bought them, I was just sure I would read them next. Instead, many have languished there because I just haven’t gotten to them yet. In fact, a great many of them traveled with me when I moved into my newlywed home last summer.
That bookshelf held 17 books on January 1. Today, it holds 15. I’m quite proud of the fact that I’m making progress, even though I know that means I’m not well on my way to completing my goal before December 31–but that seems like such a long way away!
It’s a powerful thing to have that bookshelf in the corner of my living room, reminding me regularly that I’m making progress. I know that even if I don’t knock out the whole shelf (especially since other books will undoubtedly join the space!), reading the titles I’ve wanted to for years will feel so rewarding.
What reading goal can you give yourself for this week, month, or year?
Create a Reading List
That rewarding feeling doesn’t have to come from a bookshelf you’re noticeably cleaning off as you read, though. You can easily achieve the same gust of goal-keeping energy from a simple list scratched on paper or saved in the Notes app on your smartphone. Perhaps you desire to read those titles you’ve been saying you’ll “get to eventually” like I have, or maybe you want to work your way through some classics.
Whatever your lofty reading want-to’s, challenge yourself to put them somewhere tangible. You will be more easily able to hold yourself accountable, as well as feel the satisfaction of being able to check some off your list.
Need some ideas? Enjoy these book lists for readers of all ages and tastes!
- Books Authored by the Kindred Grace Team
- 10 Relationship Books I Read and Recommend
- Books for When Motherhood Becomes a Full-Time Job
Whatever books you decide to put on your list, remember to give yourself grace in meeting your reading goal or finishing your list. Reading isn’t about checking off to-do’s; reading is about expanding your mind, nurturing your soul, learning something new, and so much more!
What books will go on your list?
Carve Out a Reading Time
I mentioned above that I enjoy listening to audiobooks while I fold laundry. But there’s just something about a book in my hand. Even though I can do nothing else while I read a physical book, I am doing something: expanding my mind with a theology tome, nurturing my soul with a gentle love story, or learning something new that not even Pinterest can teach me. I find that remembering that truth helps me prioritize reading time when I’m tempted to write it off as unproductive.
Here are some examples of times in my current lifestyle and schedule I’ve found are easily converted to reading time:
- Early in the morning after my husband’s gone to work (most often becomes my devotion time)
- Late at night when I’m waiting for him to come home and can’t sleep
- Over breakfast
- On my lunch break
- Whenever I’m waiting on a friend to arrive for our lunch or coffee date
One tool I’ve found especially helpful for reading in between times is the free Kindle app. Although I try to have a book on hand at all times, it’s much easier to read in the grocery story checkout line straight from the Kindle app on my smartphone.
What days/times could become prime reading opportunities?
Keep a Reading Log
I love keeping a log of the books I’ve read. Perhaps it is the recovering perfectionist and over-achiever in me that feels proud of all I’ve read. Perhaps it is that books bear memories for me that I forget to remember until I touch the spine or read the title and recall how the story touched me.
An easy way I keep track of what I’m reading is the social media site for bibliophiles, Goodreads. I love that I can easily scan a book using its barcode from the convenient smartphone app. Even if it’s an older book without a barcode, Goodreads’ exhaustive library always has the book I’m trying to track.
Of course, a good sturdy notebook or a detailed Excel spreadsheet works perfectly well, too! Whatever process works for you, adopt the method that suits you and your life best. Then read away, my friend, and see where the words take you.
How do you log what you’re reading?
“Books are the quietest and most constant of friends; they are the most accessible and wisest of counselors, and the most patient of teachers.”
(Charles William Eliot)
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I have tomes unread. A book list to read on my desktop. I ordered a couple of them last year. All are at least partially read. I keep my book log for the year in notepad on my desk top. I have found that reading online blogs and article usurp my book reading time. I read my Bible while I eat lunch as I a usually home alone.
Sounds like you’ve found a system that works well for you, Pat! I love that you mention that you read your Bible as you eat lunch at home. Time in the Word is so vital, and I sometimes find myself using my lunch break for the same purpose. 🙂
Lol, I can so relate! First, my husband is not a reader so he was the one telling me I have an addiction to reading. Second, I used to have 2 bookshelves, one was for books I had read and wanted to keep, the other was full of books I had yet to read. I was well on my way to my personal library when I got married. Unfortunately I had to give up alot of books when I joined forces with my husband. : ( But I would say I have made up for them in my phone kindle.
I find time to read at night while going to bed, and at work when I am pumping milk for my newborn. I get through quite a bit of reading that way. Sure I might not be reading for 3 hours straight and getting through a book in 2 days or less anymore, but the life I have now is worth the cutback.
God bless you, and keep you reading! ; )
Vanessa, I love the way you put that: the life I have now is worth the less reading time. I am with you there. Instead of reading so many love stories, I’m living my own, and I love that. 🙂 God bless you, too!
I feel like I started reading again when I got my first Kindle. I wasn’t sure if I would like it, but I’m a convert now, especially living abroad where it’s hard to get books in English. Once I had my Kindle, it was light enough to carry with me everywhere, as well as hold up in bed before going to sleep. So public transportation and taking a nap/bedtime became new favorite times to read. I also appreciate that I can take my glasses off and make the font bigger, further preparing me for sleep. 🙂 I don’t like the scale of reading on my phone, though. In the beginning I was quite excited to be able to download loads of Classics for free, like Jane Austen and Sir Arthur Conan Doyle. I still have some waiting to be read, such as Mark Twain. Nowadays I read mostly Christian/Historical fiction, and non-fiction such as biographies, healthy lifestyle, etc. I’m not always able to get into a deeper theological book, even though I have some downloaded.
My one issue with e-readers is that I actually find it harder to write book reviews since it’s not as easy to flip through the pages and find that quote! So unfortunately I haven’t been writing as many reviews, but I guess it’s the reading that counts!
Elizabeth, I was the same way! There’s nothing quite like a book in my hand, so I was unsure how I would like it at first, but now I find I read some genres well on my Kindle/Kindle app (like nonfiction), and I prefer fiction in physical form.
Aw, that makes sense. But Gretchen has made me aware that I can actually bookmark pages on my Kindle, so when I’m reading and find a quote I love, I bookmark the page so I know how to get back to it. 🙂 I hope that helps you, too!
Nice to hear from you again. I know the feeling concerning making time to read. I try to read at least 10-20 pages a day. i do not always make that goal,but I try.
That’s a great goal, Marilyn! You’d be on a good track to finish a book or two a month that way! 🙂